For instance, my knee was killing me the other day, and I was limping into the kitchen when I saw Robin's reflection in the window.
She was walking two feet behind me, imitating the way I was hobbling along.
Then we reminisce about our experiences so we can share them over and over. In fact, a few nights ago we found ourselves out in the backyard pool at 1 a.m.
Of course the two of you are going to have hard times and issues you need to work through.
But if you're constantly talking about problems, then you've got a problem relationship.
Now start helping me out around here, buddy." Instead, she'd meet me at the door with a hug, a kiss and my tennis racquet.
She knew I'd be a lot more fun if I could run around and break a good sweat instead of coming in straight from the grind.
You can decide to complain about it, or you can decide to find it charming. Don't let your relationship become like elevator music—something in the background that doesn't merit your attention—while the days turn into weeks, the weeks turn into months and the months turn into years.